Philly Black Pride Guide

philly black pride
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Do you enjoy going to Black Pride celebrations?  Read below to learn more about Philly Black Pride 2019.

Philly Black Pride Weekend (PBP) is the ultimate celebration for the African American LGBTQ community.  I absolutely enjoy it because it gives me the opportunity to network and attend all types of exciting Black queer events. This year will be the 20th anniversary and will take place from April 25th to April 28th  In this blog post, I’ll give you the Philly Black Pride 2019 Guide.

Philly Black Pride Guide

Snapshot of Philadelphia Black Pride Weekend.  It is one of the biggest Black Pride Festivals on the Eastern Coast.
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Why you must attend

Philly Black Pride PBP is the ultimate celebration for the black LGBT. PBP attracts thousands of gay men and their allies from all over the East Coast and continues to draw more people every year.

  • You can meet thousands of black gay men. In many settings especially rural areas homosexuality is still frowned up. That makes it hard for gay men to be open with their sexuality and possibly meet other gay men.  Even here in a big city like New York sometimes it can be a challenge meeting other gay men.    New York City has a lot of cliques and social circles so it may be hard for an outsider to meet other gay men.  At Philly Black Pride people for the most part are friendly and sociable.  I’ve even A
  • Lots of hot sexy men. During Philly Black Pride you will find all types of men sprawled throughout the city; black, white, spanish, slim, thick, nerdy, and sophisticated. There is no need for Grindr or Jack’d that weekend. You will find what you want in sight. two friends who I stay in daily contact with.
  • You’ll feel a sense of belonging.  I groew up uncomfortable about my sexuality due to fear of rejection from family and friends. A pride festival like PGB makes me proud of who I am. During one weekend at PGB I met other gay black men from other cities who had similar experiences growing up.  Philly Black Pride has helped me to become more comfortable in sexuality and prideful of who I am.

Parties & Entertainment

Below are some of the hottest black gay events taking place during Philly Black Pride.  The theme for Philly Black Pride 2019 is “Respecting Our Past and Looking to Our Future”.  There are a variety of events geared towards the gay community including an R&B happy hour, a nude paint and sip, block parties, and night parties.  Most of these parties have an admission price of about $20.  

Issa Vibe Weekend- R&B Happy Hours
R&B happy hour for the black LGBT community during Philly Black Pride Weekend.  This event is hosted by black queer promoter Jaylatay.
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Do you enjoy R&B? This event is definitely for you.  For some of us mature and grown folks, we may not like listening to trap music and rap.  At this event, you have the opportunity to listen and dance to smooth sensual music all night long. This event is organized by one of Philadephia’s top event producers, JayLatay. He’s one of the most popular gay black promoters in Philadelphia.  He has hosted many parties and knows how to throw a good event so you should definitely check this one out.

Philadelphia Black "Welcome" at the Aloft Hotels
happy hour for philadelphia black gay pride which is a black LGBTQ annual festival.  this will be the 20th anniversary of the philly black pride
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This is the reception party for Philly Black Pride. Adult entertainer, TS Madison, will be hosting this event.   TS Madison is a member of the trans community and has been a huge advocate for transwomen and the rest of the trans community.  Like many other transwomen, she knows how to engage and captivate her audiences with her witty commentary.  The reception should be a great turnout given the popularity of TS Madison.  The event will take place at the fancy Aloft Hotel.

2000 Sexy Men
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This is another event by Social Life Entertainment. Every year the “2000 Sexy Men Party” is hosted by a trending celebrity. What I love about their parties is that SLE heavily supports gay celebrities. Last year gay music artist, Bobby Lytes, performed at the SLE’s event. I also enjoy SLE parties because they are organized at quality venues.

Their music selection at their parties consists of rap, pop, and r&b. What’s distinguishable about their parties is that the crowd is very fashionable and trendy.

The Phirm Party
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This is another fun event that I’ve attended in the past. The Phirm organizes a Saturday night party every year; they are always planning ahead and may even be planning for 2020 PBP. This year their event will be a nightclub with four different DJs. I went to this party last year and had a great time. Thousands of men travel from all over to attend the Phirm party. Admission is about $20 which is definitely worth the price.  There’s also the option of an open bar which is about $40.  If you love masculine men this is definitely a party you need to attend.

Mikey Sharp's Men Only Nude Sip n' Paint

Have you ever been to a Sip N’ Paint? If you have or haven’t this is the event you should go to. This is one activity to network and party outside the club scene. The cost of the event is about $50 but it will be worth it.  The nude model, Mikey Sharp will be featured.   Mikey has a nice, sculpted body which you will drool over.  There are two-time slots for the event and the location would only be disclosed after the purchase of a ticket.  As I said if you’re not into the club scene this is an event you definitely want to check out.  Just don’t try to hook up with Mikey.

Spring and Fling: The Block Party
black gay event which takes place philly black pride
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All Black Gay Pride festivals have that one staple event where many of the attendees flock to and the main reason to visit Philadelphia.  The “Spring and Fling: The Block Party” event is Philly’s Black Pride staple event.  If you enjoy block parties you’ll definitely enjoy Spring and Fling.  Every year Social Life Entertainment hosts its annual block party(the actual event is at the Belmont mansion located in Fairmont Park.   The event draws more than a thousand people from different states. Probably one of the best black gay parties during Philadelphia Black Gay Pride.  Expect good music and a drama-free crowd. The best part of the event is that it’s an open bar!! 

X Day Party

Yes, Social Life Entertainment does have one of the biggest stamps in the gay black community social scene. During Philadelphia Black Pride they end with a Sunday day party. As I mentioned earlier I enjoy their parties since they attract my type of crowd: fashionable and trendy.  The venue is spacious and pretty nice looking.

Social Influencers Day Party

As the name suggests this day party is hosted by black gay influencers in the black gay community. One of the hosts is, Antoine Anderson, who’s considered “The Diddy of DC” and so expect a large turnout at this event.  The party will take place at UBar which has a bar and kitchen. Get ready to get your eat and drink on!

VIP Brunch

I absolutely love going to brunch so you know I had to include a brunch party.  This brunch day party is being organized by two social influencers. This is my first time hearing about an event like this at Philly Pride so I’m eager to go.  The cost to brunch is about 40 dollars which includes food and unlimited mimosa.  This event is exclusive in that you need to input a password to purchase a ticket on Eventbrite.  Hopefully, I’ll be able to collaborate for the 2020 Philly Black Pride. 

Community Events

Impaq Awards Ceremony
awards ceremony honoring black lgbtq leaders
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During most Black Pride Weekend celebrations there will be an awards ceremony.  This event is a break from the parties of the weekend.  The Impaq Awards ceremony celebrates black LGBTQ excellence. The event will take place at the Fairfield inn & Suites by Marriott.  The benefit of going to an event like this is meeting different black gay influencers from all walks of life and circles.

LGBTQIA+ Health Expo
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This is a free event that all attendees should come to.  The Health Expo is an informational workshop at William Way LGBT community center, a safe space for the gay community.  There will be numerous health services organizations at this event that will be conducting HIV tests and offering condoms.  This is the first health expo by the event producer, Social Life Entertainment.  Of all populations, the gay black community has one of the highest rates of HIV/AIDS. The expo will shed light on this and educate people about safer sex and better ways to take care of themselves.  I absolutely love that a party promoter is doing this health event.  It goes to show that they do care about the health and wellness of the black gay community.  For more information check out Philly Pleasure Weekend.

The Conversation
Photo of Darnell Moore, black gay author.  He is set to speak at a panel discussion for Philadelphia Black Pride
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This is a panel discussion you would enjoy.  The event will take place at the University of the Arts inside the Connelly Auditorium.  Social worker Darnell Moore will be presenting at the event. Darnell is originally from NJ and currently resides in NYC. In his lifetime he has spoken on different subjects affecting the black gay community including same-sex marriage, religion, and dating.  

The discussion will be moderated by the influencer social worker, Joseph Williams.  I’ve met Joseph before and can tell you he’s an amazing speaker.  He knows to engage his crowds and is not afraid to talk about taboo subjects like the racial division in the gay community, violence among transgender individuals, and the HIV/AIDS epidemic within the black gay community.  The event is free so you don’t have to worry about spending money at this event.  It will take place at the Willam Way LGBT community center.

Where to eat in Philadelphia

Wawa
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If you’re not trying to break your pocket at a fancy restaurant go to Wawa. The store resembles 711. And the food is actually good. I’m not a fan of breakfast but I ate here and was pleased. There are plenty of foods available and there’s a machine that gives you full control of creating your own sandwich.   The location is downtown which is close to where many of the events are taking place during Philadelphia Black Pride.

Max’s Steaks

If you go to Philly you have to eat a Philly cheesesteak. Don’t go to a fancy restaurant. Go to a local spot.  The place is about a 15-20 minute drive from downtown. My friend recommended me to Max’s Steaks and I fell in love. The restaurant sells the best cheesesteaks I’ve ever had! The spot is a little far from downtown but the trip is worth it. The cheesesteaks are served in two different sizes but either size would fill you up. And the prices are decent I would literally travel to Philly just for Max’s Philly cheesesteaks.

Where to stay in Philadelphia

Aloft Hotel
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Aloft is the official host hotel for PBP. If you’re looking At his hotel will be some of the official events for the weekend. Because Aloft is the host hotel and because of Penn Relays the room cots may not be too affordable.

Other Black Pride Celebrations

There are many other Black Pride festivals including Chicago Black Pride, Tristate Black Pride, and Denver Black Pride. One of the biggest festivals is Atlanta Black Pride. It takes place in Atlanta, Georgia during Labor Day Weekend. Thousands of queer and bisexual men from all over the country attend Atlanta Black Pride. DC Black Pride is another grand Black Pride festival that happens on the East Coast. It takes place during Memorial Weekend in Washington DC.

Wrap up

Philadelphia Black Pride party by black queer promoter Social Life Entertainment
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If you haven’t gone to Philadelphia Black Pride you should go. There are so many gay events at various venues, including gay bars and warehouses during that month; there is even a whole week named Pride Week of dozens of gay events. But Philly Black Pride definitely tops NYC Pride.

You’ll have a safe and fun time, especially since Philadelphia is a gay-friendly city. There are plenty of events to attend and places to go including the William Way LGBT community center and Gayborhood, a popular neighborhood for the gay community. Even if you miss PBP there are other reasons to visit Philadelphia for events like Outfest and National Coming Out Day.

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By menwhobrunch

Marcos is a black gay lifestyle blogger